What dare not tell the children

Being a parent is never so simple. Children often know to lead to "madness", but even in such situations there are things that mother and father never dare not tell them their children.

"I have been more responsible in your age" - Never compare your child and tell them that at his age have been more mature or responsible. If you do this, make pressure on the child who understands that there is also perfect as a sign of rebellion becomes even more irresponsible. Instead, remember that even as a child you've had a lot of trouble and strife with the parents and try to remember that how you wanted to select them.

"Always wrong decisions" - Even if your child makes a mistake every once in making any mistake independent, not punish. All make mistakes and learn from mistakes. Rather than rebuke and punish, talk, tell that is proud to be mature enough to take their own decisions, but let them know that sometimes it is better to consult with you, brother, sister or any other person that is close.

"Why did not you like brother / sister?" - Never compare children between themselves and should not insult their personalities, because in this way you create enmity between them, while the child withdraws into himself.

"Let me calm" - surely come back often tired from work, while your child has a million questions prepared for you; The worst thing you can do is to say - let me calm, because the child will feel insulted and ignored. You have to be patient, if you are really tired explain to this child, but offset later.

"You should be ashamed" - This is a very strict statement, which should be avoided. Children often have the ability to be mischievous, but do not reproach with this sentence, but find other ways to learn to distinguish good from evil.

"Always find a way to hurt me" - Children will never deliberately hurt the parents, but if you say this, you will hurt them and will create a sense of guilt.

"You're all as father / mother" - not all couples live happily, but the involvement of children in dispute is something very bad, transmits Koha.net. What do you have to say partner, do so personally, never discuss in a way that could hurt your children.

"Better not to have children, than you" - This statement is really bad, so do not let yourself ever gave you such attack emotional, because it can leave serious consequences on your child, say experts.