Can not gain respect and command orders, although many parents of proving exactly that. Do not mistake me. There are ways to force children to respect you.
Keep children, although this approach can vary from child to child, you should not insult or humiliate. If you want respect you, you respect them.
Spouse, parents should tell children they respect each other. It is this relationship between the father and the mother plays a major role in determining the behavior of the child further. When children see their parents respecting each other, regardless of differences or views of the opposite, set a standard, and they admit it.
Love: devote more time expression of love, rather than establishing rules.Very few will choose whether to everything your child say "do this, because I said so." Should talk to the children and show them why it is good to hear you.
Responsibility: tell the children that you are responsible, pay the bills, you're professional, to help others, give advice, do not talk to them gossip.All these positive things and correct your behavior will make children respect you even more, although perhaps this is not the show so often.
Limits: children, however, should not allow them anything. Some limits should be set or they will "break". Can not acquiesce constantly or let them always to manipulate you. If you allow this, that you see from above, do not turn on the dot can respect thereafter.
Do not miss their level, children will always be children, they will complain, will cheat, will be lazy, but you must not be like them. You have to keep a level; calmness, strength, confidence, ... In their interventions respond calmly, without shouting.
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