Eight wedding tips from relationship experts

Family, co-workers, close friends and even acquaintances are always willing to give marriage advice. And although do good and desire to help, they are not specialists in this field. Therefore them have been eclipsed by those authors, therapists, teachers and psychologists to share best practices for relationships to gain from their marriages.

Do not ever debate on an empty stomach
"We have been able to stop the conversion of a spat in hassle by asking:" Is there hunger? ". Whatever the cause, perhaps falling sugar, a sandwich or a biscuit can prevent a serious conflict and both cost less than a psychologist! "- Dr. Karl Pillemer, author of 30 Lessons For Loving and professor of gerontology at Cornell.

Accept mistakes
"None of us is perfect. I make mistakes. But if I'm wrong, I hurt spouse or intentionally or unintentionally, I apologize. You have to make. Successful. "Dr. Logan Levkoff, sexologists and author.

Decides that every day be a part just for you and your partner
can be a morning coffee when talking about the day and those who think, as I do with a husband, a walk in the evening, as do our friends or to pick sleeping children stay one or two hours together at the end of the day. No matter what you do during this time and how long it. The only important thing is that you're stable and you have a time to be closer every day. This will build trust in marriage, like anything else. "- Fawn Waver, author and founder of Happy Women's Club.

Sometimes you have to take responsibility to be the first
"should be the first to break the silence, the first to put peace, the first apology, the first miss, the first to fly, the first to be submitted. Life is short and marriage is very important to wait for everything to be right. "- Winifred Reilly, marriage and family therapist and relationship blogs.

Despite what you have heard, there is nothing bad to go to sleep upset
I stay up all night being busy, things will escalate, as they do truce to settle the debate, will arrive at the best solution. " - Dr. Jim Walkup, marriage and family therapist.

Do good things without them asking partner
"At least once during the day, do something for others without seeking him.Clear the table, pour the garbage, do a massage, take care of the kids while she makes a long bath. There are a million things you can do every day that can build a strong relationship for the future. " - Marina Sbrochi, author of Stop Looking for a Husband: Find the Love of Your Life ".

Separate toilets
"It's much more romantic to stay close to home elsewhere than at the sink and toilet. Having some space and private activities helps to maintain a little mystery in a long-term relationship. "- Iris Krasnow, author of The Secret Lives of Wives

Give importance to how others treat partner
"If you would see how life as a parent your partner, see how it behaves with pets or those of road. My husband left his head after a small ketch zoo pets once and he let his head after the children. "- Dr. Samantha Rodman, psychologists and advisory meetings.

Men who wear red - irritable and aggressive

A new study has shown that men who wear red color appear to be irritable and aggressive. Researchers say the findings may have parallels in nature and can provide information whether it is advisable to wear red in certain social situations.

A wrong color shirt can have fatal consequences for the progress of the meeting, says a new study. According to the researchers, men who wear shades of red are perceived as aggressive. That is why you need to be careful when choosing clothes.

When 50 men and 50 women volunteered to participate in research, they were shown images of men wearing different colored shirts. Later, they appreciated those who wore red clothing as more aggressive and more irritable than those who wore blue or gray.

However, while male volunteers tended to consider men in red as "dominant" female volunteers did not think so.

Study leader, Rob Barton, professor of Evolutionary Anthropology at Durham University, said red often provides signals of aggression in animals and men's tendency to blush in the face when they are angry, which is inherited from our ancestors as a sign of warning.

He said that in some species, the red can appear as men in the competition try to dominate each other to win the right of mating with females.

Doctoral student, Diana Uiedeman, which carried experiments, said: "We know that the red color has an effect on the human brain. This is based on our culture, for example the idea of ​​dressing a red tie, known as a power tie for business. "

"Our research findings say that people should think twice when you wear red in social situations and perhaps important meetings, such as job interviews," added the applicant.

"As aggressive or dominant perception can be an advantage in certain circumstances, but also a disadvantage in other circumstances, for example in teamwork and where trust is important."

Durham University researchers have previously shown that wearing red could have consequences in sport, by promoting aggression and competition within the team and threatening opponents.

Professor Barton and his team are currently talking with combat sports organizers about the possibility to establish new rules on competitors who wear red, to avoid inappropriate use of color for a unilateral advantage.

However, the study published in the journal Biology Letters, is believed to be the first on the effects of color on social perceptions of dominance and aggression in cases neutral.

To successfully implement research, images of men were digitally manipulated to appear as if they were wearing different colored shirts.Volunteers then rated the degree one in seven of aggression and dominance.

Volunteers were asked to decide on the emotional state of man in any image, writes English. They tended to choose "jumpy" for those wearing red, and can also choose other options as happy, fearful and neutral.

Professor Barton said: "Taken together, our findings suggest a clear link between the color red and the perception of anger, probably associated with Redness role as a natural sign of anger".

Durham search only images of men studied to limit the number of variables - the results might have been more difficult to analyze whether volunteers will be presented by both sexes.

Woman with teeth blackened gums, diagnosed with skin cancer

When the flesh color became black, a Korean woman was thought that cause tooth decay. But check to the dentist, she showed that 60-year-old woman has healthy teeth.

In fact, she suffers from a rare and deadly form of skin cancer, reports Telegraph.

Woman from South Korea, who does not drink alcohol, tobacco or drugs, had noticed the change of skin for two months, he had driven to the doctor control.

The case is described in the "New England Journal of Medicine" as "black pigmentation, which announced the emergence of cancer cells in the body".

Malignant melanoma, the disease from which suffers the woman, never before shown in parts of the mouth - writes in the report.

How can women be taken more seriously?

The study reveals the trials of ordinary people for men and women and the power that they communicate only through the image.

Women, who want to look powerful, often can do this by wearing more masculine, as business suits, or at least, a blazer.

It is difficult, but not impossible, for women to communicate a powerful image. There are moments in life that we want to take us seriously.Seriousness has to do with a sense of power that people communicate through the combination of body language and dress. Everyone, from politicians to business leaders who want to persuade to believe in them, or to invest for them, trying to find the balance and serious look, but also likable and trustworthy.

The opposite of this is called the levity. People with mood-changing, who constantly make fun and dress "trendy" are less likely to be seen as people who can be trusted. Imagine a clown who does tricks and bitter joke, with a scruffy clothing. Would you vote for this man, or would you trust that your finances? Probably not.

Because of the connection to the power and the fact that men are perceived as more dominant than women, reliability is a notion that think like a masculine quality. Women, who want to look powerful, often can do this by wearing more masculine, as business suits, or at least, a blazer.Women do not wear ties, but may wear the headscarf, or serious jewelry.

Ironically, in the series of "USA Network", women wear fashion dresses (and expensive), often with open collar, or who are close to the waist. Also, they wear high heels. Another way for women to claim their power, if we trust this version of the business world, is to look as sexy as possible.

What you seem more powerful?

A study at the University "Yale" Bailey April psychologist, can help us understand gender difference regarding reliability. "It only 1 to 5 minutes between three strangers meeting to create a hierarchy of power between them". The hierarchy established depending on gender and race (white men are seen as the most powerful), but depending on the posture (leaning against the Domina).

When interactions within groups organized in a dimension of power, they are called "vertical" (V), and when under the dimension of friendship, they are called "horizontal" (H). In a vertically organized group, people with power have style "V" high. According to experts, men have a style "V".However, anyone can adopt a style "V", in an attitude that expresses dominance.

Experts say that the body shots in style "V" include openness (open limbs, not closed), expansionism (checking into more space) and lack of nervousness. Even a woman can have style "V" standing in the same way as a stud. But, as will be appreciated women in this case?

Two psychologists created a test to measure the perceived dominance, depending on gender and posture. The basic task for the participants was that the judge had preceded meaning of words from a photo. The researchers created picture-word pairs to create two styles: dominance and submission. In photos with style "V" models remain in positions "open" and vice versa (in the second, had their hands and legs crossed). After seeing the photos, the participants appreciated the words that express a style "V" high, powerful, controlling, respected and capable and those that express a style "V" low, convinced incompetent, naive and dependent.

Because men associate with a high style "V", participants saw pictures of men in these stills will judge them with words that express a style, especially men who had an attitude that expressed high style "V".However, to see women in that position, made the work more difficult, because it would require to go beyond the stereotype. Therefore, participants need more time was when they saw a woman in positions that express high style "V".

The study shows that the choice of epithets for women deployed in style in question did not require more time, but the work was harder for men who had taken positions "subservient". When it comes to judging men as powerful and competent, work becomes easier. Women, if you want to look powerful, not only have to walk, but also to stay and sit down like men. No need to be worn as such, just enough attitude.

Older mothers live longer

In a recent study, researchers found a correlation between pregnant women who naturally later in life and life expectancy. In other words, older mothers tend to live longer.

The authors of the new study - which was published this week in the journal "Menopause" - say that the relationship is not causal, but suggests that the same genes that enable a woman to become pregnant later in life (without fertility drugs) can slow down the aging process and avoid diseases.

"Natural ability to have children at an older age is likely to show that the woman's reproductive system is aging slowly, and so the rest of her body," explains Dr. Thomas Perls, a professor at the School of Medicine of the University of Boston.

Perls and other researchers reached their conclusions after studying the data of 551 families. They found that women who had borne children after age 33 years were likely to live longer than mothers who had their child born last year before the age of 30, reports Koha.net. A woman who was born after 40-year age were four times more likely to reach the age of 100- year that most new mothers.

"Of course this does not mean that women should expect to have children at older ages in order to improve their chances of living longer," Perls explained.

In Cuba was created vaccines against lung cancer

Relative poverty communist state, has the level of world-class healthcare. Meanwhile, a scientific discovery has raised the attention of the whole world.

Researchers on the island have discovered a vaccine against lung cancer, is now available only to Cubans, reports Telegraph.

It is not surprising that in a country better known for tobacco processing, lung cancer is the cause of one of the four deaths.

This vaccine does not work against viral disease or prevention - but, given to patients who have acquired the disease.

Cimavax has shown results in prolonging the lives of patients with cancer in the lungs - which usually kills sufferers so much faster.

The drug was approved in Cuba, while it is being tested in other countries.

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